Computer distances relationship

The invention of the computer is seemed to be a great one. And, computer and/or internet has always been used as a medium to connect the surrounding people. Hence, we have the mindset that computer brings us closer to each other. Is this true?

We live in our own fantasy world;
We are trapped in our own imagination;
We don't speak (unless by using Skype/Msn etc);
We don't have eye contact (unless by using Skype/Msn etc);
We no longer using body language (unless by using Skype/Msn etc);
We isolate ourselves away from the real world...

Is this a healthy scenario?

It doesn't look healthy to me. But frankly speaking, we are now over-dependent on our computers, we don't use our brain to remember things; we don't use our pencils/pens to jot things down.

This is development, but at the same time, we are dissociating ourselves from the world.

Use computer wisely & do not abuse it.

MY DESIRE

Is having high ambition a sin?
Since when has devotion been damnation?
Is it wrong to have needs?
Or, is it my fault to request too much?

I realize that my desire can be someone's disaster. I want something which this person cannot give, I need something which this person cannot fulfill. In the end, I've been blamed.

I'm not a perfect icon. That's why I urge to have someone to complete me. This person does not has to be perfect as well, but this person has to have the material which can make both of us complete.

Nothing's perfect, hence imperfects may make wonders, as long as there's appreciation. However, imperfections cannot be used as an excuse for not improving, for not changing...

In order not to keep imperfections stagnant, from time to time, elevation is needed. I need to take off, that is the reason why I want this person to elevate together with me.

I might sound selfish, nonetheless, I'm just hoping for the best of us.

My desire is not your disaster; My desire is your desire as well.

The Older I get, The Least I have.

When I was 5 years old, I was happy to go to kindergarten to play with my mates.

When I was 10 years old, I was happy because my parents gave me a Barbie as a gift.

When I was 15 years old, I was happy & excited to go on my 1st date.

When I was 20 years old, I was happy to study abroad.

When I am 25, I realize that friends, gifts, love & knowledge that I have now are not enough to satisfy me.

I become greedy. Is greed really a deadly sin? Is it my fault?

The older I get, the least I have. For instance, although I have friends, gifts, love & knowledge, it is not about the quantity of my acquiring, it is about the quality of them.

How good can a friend be?
How precious is the gift?
How devoted can you love?
How much you have in your brain?
None of these is countable.

Do not be calculative when you are unable to count.
Appreciation is the rule of life.
Do not think of what you can get, give what you are able to give.
The most valuable thing in life has always been by your side, which is your family.
Be grateful, because you still have your family...

FREEDOM - PART I

Today's freedom is all about getting rid of those law books!!! My ten-days-non-stop-"war" (i.e.exam) has finally ceased. Such a relief!!

Sometimes I do not understand why do we have to torture ourselves by incriminating the materialistic mind-set which will eventually eaten up our freedom? Well, let me explain.

We spent more than 18 years to study, what's the purpose of it?
We lost more than 18 years of freedom, just to study. What's the point of it?

Honestly, it is all about wealth, fame & status!!!

In order to survive, to maintain an ordinary life-style, there is no need to study too much. Gain some basic knowledge, get an ordinary job, a blue-collar job may be, it'll be enough to sustain our lives!!! Nevertheless, most of us having or having not the ability, we struggle so hard, we give up our freedom, in order to achieve our goals, to be wealthy, famous & living with status.

Freedom is nonetheless important. By losing it, we'll feel restrained. However, losing freedom to achieve something goals, it's worthy!

Apart of being materialistic, after gaining such knowledge through these 18 years or more, try to contribute to the society. Do good to the society. Contest the evil, promote of peace!

BOY FROM SETAPAK HIGH SCHOOL -VS- GIRL FROM SERI HARTAMAS HIGH SCHOOL (PART I)

"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" per John Gray.

I've read this book several times. Each time I read, I would have experienced something new, something different between the genders. Unfortunately, it did not help me to stop fighting with my boyfriend. Therefore, I decided to write myself a short note, titled, "Boy from Setapak High School, Girl from Seri Hartamas High School".

Boy from Setapak High School, Girl from Seri Hartamas
In general, there are differences between the boy & the girl. However, neither one of them remember that they are different. Argument occurs, love diminishes, due to overlooking of their differences.

Mr. I'm-Always-Right -vs- Miss. Listen-To-Me
Whenever there is a tiny-viny problem occurs, Mr. I'm-Always-Right would start lecturing the girl. Telling her about her fault, "teaching" her the right way... blah blah blah... What's his intention by doing so? Probably, in a positive manner, he is trying to show that he cares for the girl. Unfortunately, this is not what the girl thinks.

On the other hand, Miss. Listen-To-Me will persist the boyfriend to listen to her while she's telling him about her problems. She wants listener & she wants to speak out. Sometimes, the boyfriend either ignore or talk too much, both reactions are extreme, both are not acceptable by the girl. What the girl wants is an answer/reply to show some TLC (tender, love, care), not a solution.

Argument usually happens right here. The boy wants to express his knowledge & maturity to the girl, but the girl wants to be pampered with some TLC. Lack of communication, misunderstanding...

Therefore, one of the solutions to blossom the love is by communication. But, listen before you speak.


Verdict 1: Communication plays an important role in a relationship.

WHAT IS THE POINT OF STUDYING LAW IF I CAN'T PRACTICE LAW!!!???

I'm angry at myself! I'm frustrated with the reality! I'm pissed off by those law-breakers!!! Again, I'm not trying to boast that I'm a perfect homo sapiens who has never broken rules. Those whom I'm trying to pinpoint on are those who have no self-knowledge about what wrongs they have done & continue to the wrongdoings. They should be shame on themselves!!! They are the disgraced to human beings!!!

From day one, I wanted to study law, is to protect my family & myself. Unfortunately, I've not been supported by people surroundings. Everyone is asking me to face the reality, I have to obey to what it seems to be unfair. But this is totally in contrast of what I have been studying for in this few years. I was taught that law is supposed to be fair & just, but it is not!!! It is so much about corruptions, powerful backgrounds, personal status, etc. The more I'm forced to face the reality, the more I found out about the darker side of law.

I want to fight for my own right! I want to fight for my family! I want to protect them!!! But I can't. Why? I am not afraid to face the difficulties in doing so, but I was given telling-off, saying that I will not succeed!!! Unbelievable!!!

We are way too timid to even try to speak out!!! We are afraid of the things which are unfair to us. We dare not defend for ourselves. But, how come it's acceptable for us to be bullied!!!???? Since when we are born to be treated unjustly!!!???

Hence, what's the purpose of having law if no one is to follow law??? Although it has been a norm, but we have to change!!! Be fair to each other. -Karma-

HAZE

HAZELESS KUALA LUMPUR

HAZY KUALA LUMPUR

Compare & contrast the two (2) photos above. Which Kuala Lumpur would you prefer? The "hazeless" or the "hazy"? It's weird how people are so concern-less about the problem of haze in our country. It is not a small matter. It is huge & health affecting!!! Moreover, it affects the incoming of tourists as well. Therefore, economically-wise, haze is bad as well!!!

What has caused haze? Presumably, AIR POLLUTION.

Back to basis, what has resulted in air pollution? MAN-KIND. We are our biggest killer!!! Surprised? Don't be!!

We love open-burning, especially on plastic which will emate smell that might cause death ;
We do not maintain our vehicles so that we can create black & poisonous smoke;
We smoke;
We do not clean & we love collecting dust... etc.

What is the point of having 'Earth-hour', 'Earth-day', 'Go-Green', 'Recycle'... blah blah blah... All are mainly gimmicks from businessmen to make money by organising such campaigns, selling recycled-items, etc, but it barely helps us to stop pollution! Moreover, it doesn't seem to help on reducing the seriousness of haze!!!

We pollute, we contaminate, as a result, we create haze. On the other hand, we complain, we protest, we hate haze. We are merely slapping our own faces!!! What a joke!!!

We should start by cleaning ourselves, cleaning our houses, cleaning our neighbourhoods, cleaning our cities, cleaning our countries, & there you go, A CLEAN PIECE OF LAND THAT ALL OF US IN THE WORLD ARE SHARING.

Love yourself by loving this piece of land which connects everyone in this world.