Computer distances relationship

The invention of the computer is seemed to be a great one. And, computer and/or internet has always been used as a medium to connect the surrounding people. Hence, we have the mindset that computer brings us closer to each other. Is this true?

We live in our own fantasy world;
We are trapped in our own imagination;
We don't speak (unless by using Skype/Msn etc);
We don't have eye contact (unless by using Skype/Msn etc);
We no longer using body language (unless by using Skype/Msn etc);
We isolate ourselves away from the real world...

Is this a healthy scenario?

It doesn't look healthy to me. But frankly speaking, we are now over-dependent on our computers, we don't use our brain to remember things; we don't use our pencils/pens to jot things down.

This is development, but at the same time, we are dissociating ourselves from the world.

Use computer wisely & do not abuse it.

MY DESIRE

Is having high ambition a sin?
Since when has devotion been damnation?
Is it wrong to have needs?
Or, is it my fault to request too much?

I realize that my desire can be someone's disaster. I want something which this person cannot give, I need something which this person cannot fulfill. In the end, I've been blamed.

I'm not a perfect icon. That's why I urge to have someone to complete me. This person does not has to be perfect as well, but this person has to have the material which can make both of us complete.

Nothing's perfect, hence imperfects may make wonders, as long as there's appreciation. However, imperfections cannot be used as an excuse for not improving, for not changing...

In order not to keep imperfections stagnant, from time to time, elevation is needed. I need to take off, that is the reason why I want this person to elevate together with me.

I might sound selfish, nonetheless, I'm just hoping for the best of us.

My desire is not your disaster; My desire is your desire as well.

The Older I get, The Least I have.

When I was 5 years old, I was happy to go to kindergarten to play with my mates.

When I was 10 years old, I was happy because my parents gave me a Barbie as a gift.

When I was 15 years old, I was happy & excited to go on my 1st date.

When I was 20 years old, I was happy to study abroad.

When I am 25, I realize that friends, gifts, love & knowledge that I have now are not enough to satisfy me.

I become greedy. Is greed really a deadly sin? Is it my fault?

The older I get, the least I have. For instance, although I have friends, gifts, love & knowledge, it is not about the quantity of my acquiring, it is about the quality of them.

How good can a friend be?
How precious is the gift?
How devoted can you love?
How much you have in your brain?
None of these is countable.

Do not be calculative when you are unable to count.
Appreciation is the rule of life.
Do not think of what you can get, give what you are able to give.
The most valuable thing in life has always been by your side, which is your family.
Be grateful, because you still have your family...

FREEDOM - PART I

Today's freedom is all about getting rid of those law books!!! My ten-days-non-stop-"war" (i.e.exam) has finally ceased. Such a relief!!

Sometimes I do not understand why do we have to torture ourselves by incriminating the materialistic mind-set which will eventually eaten up our freedom? Well, let me explain.

We spent more than 18 years to study, what's the purpose of it?
We lost more than 18 years of freedom, just to study. What's the point of it?

Honestly, it is all about wealth, fame & status!!!

In order to survive, to maintain an ordinary life-style, there is no need to study too much. Gain some basic knowledge, get an ordinary job, a blue-collar job may be, it'll be enough to sustain our lives!!! Nevertheless, most of us having or having not the ability, we struggle so hard, we give up our freedom, in order to achieve our goals, to be wealthy, famous & living with status.

Freedom is nonetheless important. By losing it, we'll feel restrained. However, losing freedom to achieve something goals, it's worthy!

Apart of being materialistic, after gaining such knowledge through these 18 years or more, try to contribute to the society. Do good to the society. Contest the evil, promote of peace!

BOY FROM SETAPAK HIGH SCHOOL -VS- GIRL FROM SERI HARTAMAS HIGH SCHOOL (PART I)

"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" per John Gray.

I've read this book several times. Each time I read, I would have experienced something new, something different between the genders. Unfortunately, it did not help me to stop fighting with my boyfriend. Therefore, I decided to write myself a short note, titled, "Boy from Setapak High School, Girl from Seri Hartamas High School".

Boy from Setapak High School, Girl from Seri Hartamas
In general, there are differences between the boy & the girl. However, neither one of them remember that they are different. Argument occurs, love diminishes, due to overlooking of their differences.

Mr. I'm-Always-Right -vs- Miss. Listen-To-Me
Whenever there is a tiny-viny problem occurs, Mr. I'm-Always-Right would start lecturing the girl. Telling her about her fault, "teaching" her the right way... blah blah blah... What's his intention by doing so? Probably, in a positive manner, he is trying to show that he cares for the girl. Unfortunately, this is not what the girl thinks.

On the other hand, Miss. Listen-To-Me will persist the boyfriend to listen to her while she's telling him about her problems. She wants listener & she wants to speak out. Sometimes, the boyfriend either ignore or talk too much, both reactions are extreme, both are not acceptable by the girl. What the girl wants is an answer/reply to show some TLC (tender, love, care), not a solution.

Argument usually happens right here. The boy wants to express his knowledge & maturity to the girl, but the girl wants to be pampered with some TLC. Lack of communication, misunderstanding...

Therefore, one of the solutions to blossom the love is by communication. But, listen before you speak.


Verdict 1: Communication plays an important role in a relationship.

WHAT IS THE POINT OF STUDYING LAW IF I CAN'T PRACTICE LAW!!!???

I'm angry at myself! I'm frustrated with the reality! I'm pissed off by those law-breakers!!! Again, I'm not trying to boast that I'm a perfect homo sapiens who has never broken rules. Those whom I'm trying to pinpoint on are those who have no self-knowledge about what wrongs they have done & continue to the wrongdoings. They should be shame on themselves!!! They are the disgraced to human beings!!!

From day one, I wanted to study law, is to protect my family & myself. Unfortunately, I've not been supported by people surroundings. Everyone is asking me to face the reality, I have to obey to what it seems to be unfair. But this is totally in contrast of what I have been studying for in this few years. I was taught that law is supposed to be fair & just, but it is not!!! It is so much about corruptions, powerful backgrounds, personal status, etc. The more I'm forced to face the reality, the more I found out about the darker side of law.

I want to fight for my own right! I want to fight for my family! I want to protect them!!! But I can't. Why? I am not afraid to face the difficulties in doing so, but I was given telling-off, saying that I will not succeed!!! Unbelievable!!!

We are way too timid to even try to speak out!!! We are afraid of the things which are unfair to us. We dare not defend for ourselves. But, how come it's acceptable for us to be bullied!!!???? Since when we are born to be treated unjustly!!!???

Hence, what's the purpose of having law if no one is to follow law??? Although it has been a norm, but we have to change!!! Be fair to each other. -Karma-

HAZE

HAZELESS KUALA LUMPUR

HAZY KUALA LUMPUR

Compare & contrast the two (2) photos above. Which Kuala Lumpur would you prefer? The "hazeless" or the "hazy"? It's weird how people are so concern-less about the problem of haze in our country. It is not a small matter. It is huge & health affecting!!! Moreover, it affects the incoming of tourists as well. Therefore, economically-wise, haze is bad as well!!!

What has caused haze? Presumably, AIR POLLUTION.

Back to basis, what has resulted in air pollution? MAN-KIND. We are our biggest killer!!! Surprised? Don't be!!

We love open-burning, especially on plastic which will emate smell that might cause death ;
We do not maintain our vehicles so that we can create black & poisonous smoke;
We smoke;
We do not clean & we love collecting dust... etc.

What is the point of having 'Earth-hour', 'Earth-day', 'Go-Green', 'Recycle'... blah blah blah... All are mainly gimmicks from businessmen to make money by organising such campaigns, selling recycled-items, etc, but it barely helps us to stop pollution! Moreover, it doesn't seem to help on reducing the seriousness of haze!!!

We pollute, we contaminate, as a result, we create haze. On the other hand, we complain, we protest, we hate haze. We are merely slapping our own faces!!! What a joke!!!

We should start by cleaning ourselves, cleaning our houses, cleaning our neighbourhoods, cleaning our cities, cleaning our countries, & there you go, A CLEAN PIECE OF LAND THAT ALL OF US IN THE WORLD ARE SHARING.

Love yourself by loving this piece of land which connects everyone in this world.

EDUCATED BUT NO MANNERS!!!

I have just read an article on the newspaper today, regarding to those who are educated but with no manners.

Unfortunately, this is not an unusual scenario. From time to time, we have realized that a big percentage of people have bad manners. And what makes it more shameful is because those without good manners are usually those highly educated.

Think carefully:
When was the last time you thank or you said "You're welcome!" to the toll cashier?
When was the last time you give way to another car on the road?
When was the last time you smile to a total stranger?
How often do you jump on queues?
Have you ever apologize whenever you fart/burp in public?
How often you use indecent words on others?
& more...

We learnt about manners during schooling time, but why don't we practice them in reality? Why do we tend to forget about the good things we learnt from school?

Some of them, with some 'extraordinary' excuses, would say, they did not receive good manners in return when they were being nice to the others, so why should they? Eventually, they might "stop" being nice to other.. But, what will we lose by being well-mannered? Lose face? I supposed this is the biggest threat for being well-mannered!!!

We have learned to say "thank you" & "I'm sorry" way before we entered school. Smile more often. You will feel happier than before.

Do not expect how much you can take, but give as much as you can!

STRESS/DEPRESSION MANAGEMENT

Recently I'm suffering from loads of stress & depression, due to studies, relationship & health. I broke down almost every night, cried in the middle of the night, suffered from insomnia, eating disorder (over-eat), mood swing, emotional, aggressive, talk less... etc. This has caused a lot of problems to my daily life.

I have no one to speak to, I assume. Therefore I went online, surfed for materials on stress & depression. I found out that I might have been diagnosed with clinical depression. When I realized that, I felt worse than before. This might be the reason why most of the people choose to ignore the issue or pay no attention to it, hence may worsen the stress & depression.

I found out some tips to release stress & conquer depression, which are:
1. exercise
2. meditation
3. deep breathing
4. spas, etc

I have tried walking my dog, doing yoga, as well as spas. It worked, but not apparent, might worsen due to disappointment.

Finally, I realized that by talking to your loved ones are the most useful. Their support & understanding help a lot, more than by going through stress management.

Don't worry, be happy! Stress & depression will only deteriorate one's progression, making a person to fall out from his/her daily routine. It brings no benefit to your life. Try to defeat it by positiveness!!! Cheers!!!

RELATIONSHIP vs. MONEY

What is the most important ingredient in a relationship?
The answer is very simple, LOVE.
However, can a relationship last without MONEY?
I doubted so.

There are various types of relationships, family, friends, lovers... etc. On the facts, I'm pin-pointing on lovers-kind-of-relationship.

To make myself clear, I do not mean that everyone needs to be a billionaire in order to survive in a relationship. What I meant was, to have enough money to satisfy the needs in our relationship.

What are the needs in a relationship? Food, gifts, pampering treatment (e.g. SPA), travel, anniversaries, birthdays, celebrations... We splurge on all these things when we are in a relationship, and all these can only be achieved using money. When we are madly in love, sometimes we immune ourselves from all these ugly-realities, realities that tell us, WE NEED MONEY! It's to even mention about this. By mentioning about money with your husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, it is not only ir-romantic, moreover, by doing so, you might probably ruin your relationship. Therefore, communication is very important. Couples must learn to communicate wisely with each other.

Money is a very sensitive issue in a relationship. Most of the people work extremely hard merely to satisfy their partners' urges to splurge & spend. However, my point here is not about having a luxury lifestyle, it is merely about an equivalent amount of money which is able to run the relationship.

Work hard, for yourself as well as for your beloved ones.

HOW SKINNY DO YOU WANT ME TO BE!?

Lately, I'm trying to lose weight. I have a healthy BMI, but I just have a 'fat-feeling'. I feel fat no matter what clothes I put on my body, I feel fat whenever I eat... But, how thin is considered thin?

There are lots of unhealthy impressions given through the media, e.g. movies, TV shows, advertisements, beauty pageants contests, catwalks, models in the magazines etc. In conclusion, celebrities, beauty kings/queens etc, THEY ARE ALL THIN!!! Therefore, thin is thought to be beautiful, an IT thing.

Thin is not a bad thing, but way too thin is definitely unhealthy! But who cares, I want to be hot & sexy, & being thin is so sexy!!! [Just kidding! I'm a curvy person! LoL...]

Other than the bad impressions from the media, others' point of view is a killer too! There are so many weird people around us, strangers i mean. If you are fat, they will give you those look as if you are polluting the scenery!!! They blame you to be fat, they tease on your bulky thighs, they call you fat-ass, they give you names etc, they kill you by destroying your self-esteem. Why can't these people be a little polite, by telling someone that he/she is fat need not use harsh words. By giving advice or encouragement is good enough.

I'm impressed by my boyfriend due to his weight loss by walking, I'm lucky to have a friend who is now guiding me to lose weight (you know who are!!! yeah, it's you, superstar!!!) & I'm glad my mum is teasing me right now saying that I've been gaining weight speedily!!! All these are motivations. They push you to lose weight, at the same time in a healthy manner. Please don't end up like the person in the photo above. It's sad...

I want to be thin, healthy & sexy!

ROAD-IOTS i.e. ROAD IDIOTS

What on earth is wrong with these people!? Why are there so MUCH (i.e. uncountable) of road-iots around us!!?? Well, before questioning the others, ask yourself, are you one of those road idiots/bullies!!!???

Frankly speaking, I used to be quite an aggressive driver, about 2 or 3-years back. But now, I'm so much more gentle than before (after staying in UK). Although I was aggressive, but I wasn't a road bully, neither was I a road-diot.

I was so pissed off today because i encountered so much of road-iots in just one day. There was traffic-jam @ one of these roundabouts, there are traffic lights on that roundabout, but people seemed to have ignored those traffic lights. So what's the point of having traffic lights if there are no one following the signals!!!??? Moreover, those road-iots were just too impatient to the extent a fourth or even fifth lane were created (whilst naturally there are only 3 lanes & an emergency lane) due to the traffic jam. Commom sense tells us that the traffic jam was most probably created due to the ignorance of the traffic light's signals. SO PEOPLE, JUST FOLLOW THE CHANGES OF THE COLOURS OF THE TRAFFIC LIGHT, EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW, STOP @ RED & MOVE @ GREEN!!! ARE YOU COLOUR-BLIND!!!???

Another idiotic issue which is always happenning in our country, which is BUSYBODY-NESS. There were some cars stopping @ the opposite lanes, I'm not sure whether it was car accident or the car broke down. Our "smart"-busybody drivers @ this lane stepped on their car breaks "just to have a look", as though they were going over to help!!! IF YOU ARE NOT, DON'T STOP, DON'T CREATE ANOTHER CAR ACCIDENT WHILE STOPPING, DON'T CREATE TRAFFIC JAM, MOVE IT, @x#*!!!

Well, I assumed most of the people in our country is educated, primary standard, high-school, whatever, it doesn't necessarily need to be a university graduate. If so, what's the point of acquiring a Masters degree or a PhD, but acting like an idiot on the road!!!??? Everyone is equal on the road, everyone's life is as fragile as the others. Why don't you try to be more considerate? When you are careful while driving on the road, you are actually doing good for yourself, secondly, to the other road users.

I am not perfect, I can't say that I follow the law 100%, but I do not try to create nuisance on the road which will affect the other road users. Be nice to others, be nice to yourself.

EARTH DAY

'Earth Hour', 'Earth Day', 'Earth Week', 'Earth Month'... There were/are/will be so much of campaigns like these emerging around us, everyday. Will they work? Again, are these merely gimmicks?

What is 'Earth Day'? Earth Day is a day designed to create awareness to the people on 5W1H (who, when, what why, where & how) to appreciate the mother earth. The Earth Day was founded on 1969 & has been celebrated in the US since 1970. But how come I have never heard of this day until recently? I celebrate birthdays, mother-days, father-days... etc, but I have never celebrated Earth-Day... I am ashamed of myself. Does this mean that I do not love the mother earth? No, it is because of my culture, my environment, my society which did not promote this kind of awareness to our people until recently, for example one the hottest love-thy-environment campaigns would be the 'Earth Hour'. Hence, can I blame my society for not informing me about the Earth Day? No, I can't as well. This is because even if there is non existence of the Earth Day, we must still love the earth. We cannot love the earth because of Earth Day!!! We have to love the mother earth because of the earth herself as well as all other living creatures on the earth.

Why are we falling behind the others? Loving & appreciating the mother earth is not the responsibility of the more developed nations. Every single person should play a role in it. No matter where you are, who you are, it doesn't matter. Just remember one rule, how much you get from the earth, you must in return contribute the same or even more back to the earth, in a good sense, the easiest way is "DO NOT LITTER"!!!

The procedures are similar, almost every love-your-environment campaigns inspire & promote the same aspects, reduce the use of energy(power-saving rule), re-cycle, do not waste, go-green... etc etc. Although most of us know the way to protect the earth, but not much of us are practicing it.

Do not expect much from the earth (eg, gold, diamonds, oil & gas...), if what we can give to the earth is only garbage. Karma.

IS FRIENDSHIP ALWAYS FOREVER?

In a Utopian society, everything is perfect til the end of the day. Therefore, friendship can last beautifully, forever. However, in reality, is this possible?

Personally, I am always hoping for a friendship that can last forever, from the day we attach til the day we depart from the world. I know, this is tough.

I have had a few friendships which I used to think that they were great, & they would last. Unfortunately, what i thought was not what I got. I got nasty experiences from friends who used to be so close with me, whom I thought he/she was the best friend I can ever get. Unluckily, I was back-stabbed, used, humiliated, isolated etc by those whom I thought they were my best friends!!! Those were the ugly days...

Fortunately, I still have a few friends whom I think are really nice persons. Now, I do not dare to demand much from a friend. As long as I'm not being back-stabbed or being used, I'm grateful enough.

Appreciate what you have right now, instead of begging to stay the way it was in the past... Friendship can last forever if it stays forever in your heart...

LOVERS-FIGHT

8pm, Pretty Garden-Kuala Lumpur, a couple(boyfriend-girlfriend) were fighting... Both of them were slapping each other... Boyfriend rode on his motorbike leaving the girlfriend alone in the park... Terrible, how can a man slap a woman!? I'm not sexist, but I opined that those men who hit women have the worst character if compared to egoistic men, greedy men... etc. He hit her, drove her down by his motorbike, left her alone in a dark & quiet park, so irresponsible!!! In such a unsafe society we live in right now, criminals are everywhere, it is extremely dangerous to leave a girl alone by herself, at night, in a park. Never know what would happen to that girl...

Lovers fight sometimes, everyone is so unique, we have different characters, brought up in different backgrounds, we like and dislike the different things, therefore it's impossible to find someone whom is your 100% match! Argument is usual, disagreement is a norm. We argue, we fight verbally, but never physically attack your lover!!! You love him/her, but how come you can hurt him/her? By causing him/her to cry by your verbal attack is already considered as unpleasant, by assaulting him/her by whacking him/her, is unacceptable!!!

Family abuse has always been an issue. Nowadays, abuse between cohabitants & girlfriends-boyfriends are getting more serious. To be honest, there are only a small number of victims whom will speak out for themselves, majority will just keep quite. This is because of love, LOVE IS BLIND. Stupidly thinking, by hiding the truth, they can save their relationships, save the family, keep their lovers... If he/she can hit you once, he/she can hit you twice!

Stand for yourself, speak out! Love yourself instead of begging to be loved!!!

MONEY MONEY MONEY!

ABBA, '...Money Money Money, must be funny, it's a rich man's world...'


I'm singing, dreaming, visualizing myself, to be living in this rich man's world. Am I being realistically materialistic? I don't think so. What makes you think that I'm being realistic and/or materialistic? If you are not the same, for your entire life, what has been motivating you to study like& work like a cow? [As per my dad, he has to work like a cow in India in order to support my education fee, whereas he can't enjoy his life like a cow in New Zealand merely chewing on grass.] It's not funny, it's reality!

Most of the youngster or yuppies do not understand how difficult to earn a living. Education is important, luck is important, but most importantly is hardwork. Probably they have all these criterions, but greed is 1 of the 7 deadly sins. Money is always not enough. People ended up with loads of debts, from credit cards, installments, loans, insurance fees & etc. Know your ability, be wise on your spendings!


In my life-time, I have not been a very hardworking person, I regretted, I'm always a happy-go-lucky type. I did not studied hard, but fortunately, I did well in my exams. So now, as I'm already in my mid-20s, I have work hard since I have had my education, & some luck!

WHERE SHOULD WE THROW OUR RUBBISH?

When I was in Chinese Primary School, all of us were taught to throw our rubbish in the rubbish bins. You can ask most of the school children this question, & they can easily tell you that rubbish belongs to the rubbish bins. But how come, there are tons of rubbish "beyond the bin"? Shouldn't it be "Do Not Litter"? Why is it now "Do Not Stop Littering"???

Yesterday, Hippo (my boyfriend) asked me a very 'funny' question, he asked, 'Can I throw the plastic cup out of my car window?' & I answered, 'It is not whether you can or cannot, it is whether you should or should not.' I saw a rubbish bin less than 5 metres away from us, so I suggested to walk over to the bin together, & we can throw the cups into the bin. Isn't this easy???? By walking less than 5 metres, you can protect the environment. It might look tiny, but, if everyone can do a little, contribute less rubbish to the environment, Mother Earth will be healthier!

EDUCATION (I)

I've been studying for more than 20 years. The biggest part of my life, until present, I'm a student, in kindergarten, primary school, secondary school, college, & university. I do enjoy student life, but sometimes studying can be very stressful. To achieve good grades is not only to answer to yourself, but also to be able to answer to your parents, your family members, your neighbours, your friends & etc. This is because there are just way too many busy-bodies around us!!! We are now not only responsible to ourselves, but also to everyone around us. We study to make them happy!!! We do not know the importance of education!!!

However, will education bring us happiness in future? How important is it? I'm not sure. Education is just a stepping stone on our way to success. Education does not ONLY exist in schools, we are constantly learning something in our daily routine, it depends on whether you realise it. The process of learning is equally important as education. We learned, we developed.

EARTH HOUR. Merely gimmick or really doable?

This was a global event in order to create awareness to the people about the changes of the climate, how much we have been wasting the energy by turning-on non-essential electrical wares. Did it work?

When I was half-way typing this post, I switched off the lights & fan, not because I wasted energy by turning them on, it's because I have to had the "Earth Hour" kind of feeling. I felt so hot & uneasy...

On 28th March 2009, 8.30pm-9.30pm, I didn't see any difference at my neighbourhood. Embarrassingly, I didn't see any difference in my own house. I turned off the lights in my room, but only my room. Probably the awareness did not get into the heart or mind of the people!? My mum said, 'Earth Hour campaign is just a gimmick, by turning off the lights for 1 hour will not change the people's mindset to go green.' I truly understand what she meant. People loves event. it's like a PARTY to them! Everything can be celebrated. Every day can be a count-down-day. Therefore, personally I think, it's more to a business gimmick, then an environmental-friendly awareness campaign.

However, I don't mean that this event was unsuccessful. Hopefully, the awareness to save energy & to prevent any abnormal climate changes WILL NOT STOP/END after 9.30pm of 28.03.2009. Lights are important, to allow us to see better to protect our eye-sight. Fan is important too, so that we won't feel hot & eventually affect our emotion (sometimes people do get angry easily due to hot weather!!). Switch the lights off if your room is bright enough & it doesn't hurt your eye-sight; switch the fan off if the day is windy.

Do something for your children & yourself. LOVE THE MOTHER EARTH!

SEAT BELTS, ANYONE?

Does anyone know what is the main purpose of a seat belt in our car?

Seat belt is sometimes called a safety belt, which means it's main purpose is safety purpose (duh!). But how come drivers are still not keen to put their seat belts on? Have they neglected their own safety as well as the safety of the other road users?

There is this new rule, "Buckle-up your rear seat belt!", how many of us have actually followed this rule? I did, I do & I'll still do it! There are many reasons of me buckling the seat belt while I'm in the rear seat, mainly because I do not wish to be fined, I do not wish to be stopped by the traffic police.

Recently, I've been stopped by a police because my friends sitting at the rear seats "forgot" to buckle up their seat belts. We weren't fined, the police was being very kind-hearted to us, he just gave us a warning & let us go. I have had a high blood pressure due to this!!! I was afraid that we would be fined, & I was not happy because I have warned my friends about this before the journey. I can't say that I follow law completely, but I'll try my best to prevent being stopped by policemen, on the road. This is because I don't feel good being stopped & interrogated, I felt like a criminal!!! (Ok, this might sound a little exaggerated...)

Most importantly, I do not wish to endanger my life as well as the lives of my loved ones, & other road users, of course. (Hokkien may called it 'kia su' & 'kia si')

Unfortunately, there are still SO MANY drivers who do not buckle up their own driver-seat-belt while driving. If their children are to be seated at the rear seats seeing their parents not buckling up the front seat belts, will the children buckle up their rear seat belts? NO WAY!

SAVE LIVES! Buckle up your seat belts, be considerate to ALL road users, including your loved ones & yourself.

NOISE

Are you living in a noisy surrounding? If you are, how do you manage to cope with it? Do you confront the person making noise to shut-up or lower their volume? Or do you just keep quite & ignore? Or do you walk to that person & whack him up? Neither of these is a good idea.

I have had an experience of confronting someone whom constantly creating nuisance using her honk from her car. She would honk in her car signaling someone inside her office to open the office door for her before she gets down from her car. This had been happening for months, so one day I've decided to confront her, hoping that she would not honk in future. Unfortunately, she being unable to counter what I've said to her, dragged her husband into our conversation. Her husband, behaving as an "uneducated barbarian", scolded me & my mum using obscene language. The honk did not stop until recently.

Why can't people be more considerate? Why can't we be thoughtful for those around us? Give a little, & you might get more, unexpectedly.

STOP THE NOISE! You do not like to be irritated by noise, what's makes you think that the others like it?